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I’m my own worse enemy

Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Sep 22, 2023 | Replies (11)

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I'm forcing myself today to go to the Senior Center. I joined several months ago and I have met many wonderful people there. It does make me feel a bit better once I socialize and also use the Fitness Room. I don't have children and I have siblings that live out of state. I was just told I needed cataract surgery so now I need to find someone who can help with that hurdle which is creating anxiety. I hate to ask anyone for assistance, which is another bad habit I need to overcome. I'm told that some individuals at the Senior Center may be able to help with transport the day of surgery and follow up appointment the following day (then the same for the other eye); which I'm tremendously grateful for if they can indeed help. I have offered my assistance to others in need of such services, as I feel we all need to stick together and help each other through trying times, but find it so terribly difficult to ask for assistance for myself.
Wishing all a wonderful day!!!

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I had cataract surgery. It was wonderful because I could finally see. The procedure itself does not take long. Not too long ago I had to have a complete hip replacement and I did it. Before I had always prided myself on my independence. After this surgery I realized I had to ask for help. Now I do. That's when you realize the kindness of strangers. I have also availed myself of the benefits of therapy. When you find the right person (and thankfully I did) this can do wonders. Next summer I am really stepping out of my comfort zone and going on a short cruise by myself. And lastly in exactly one week I will be 89 and I live in my own home. Hang in and don't bash yourself.