Hi Sheilia49,
What an awful situation you have! I'm sorry you are going through that! I'm 77 and everything as far as bowel movements was pretty normal until I became incontinent. That's when constipation was a problem. However, I solved it with a home remedy that my mom always gave me which is about 2 or 3 teaspoons of Arm and Hammer baking soda in water. It tastes terrible so you may want to add some lemon juice to it. But it works and it is natural! Stay close to the bathroom when you use it. If it doesn't work at first, try it again. However, I've been taking it since I was a child and I never had it not work! Besides relieving your constipation, it also gets rid of gas. Drink a lot of water after you take it so you don't become dehydrated due to the baking soda.

I hope this works for you. Let me know.
PML