I truly feel your pain... I was in the same position this winter. Faced with a spontaneous ankle fracture, a bad T score, other heath issues...I procrastinated. Did my RN research, and still was unsure.
My fear of doing nothing, and being dependant on my poor husband finally made me choose.
I read all the pharmacy info. I picked Prolia... It seemed the less of the worries. I have learned reading the reviews makes one more stressed. I read horror stories.
I have had ZERO side effects. I'ld like to tell you my bone density has improved. But it has been too soon to test. My point is you Have to just choose one.. T scores don't lie... Trust your doctors . make a choice. Think positive. I was where you are.. A wreck. Now I am positive this is helping