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Very very sorry to hear about your experiences.

I have had many horror shows with doctors. And I know many others who also have had horror shows with doctors.

They are people. They are not saints. They are no more moral than anyone else. And if you check into crime statistics, I am sure the percentage of crime committed by doctors is pretty much the same as any other member of society.

So, don't be hoodwinked by some myth that doctors are from Mount Olympus. They are not.

I don't trust reporting doctors to other doctors or to medical organizations. I think it is probably a "good old boys" network and they protect their own, rather than properly discipline offenders.

I myself am looking for ways to deal with the problems.

I have started to reference that, you know, like anyone else, I have friends and relatives in law enforcement. When I started saying that, I did notice that the abuse I receive lessened some.

But doctors and, in particular, HMOs are extremely politically powerful in society. And I would exercise caution in dealing with them.

Maybe some talented political activists and journalists already dealing with these issues could help you.

One quick story. This was with a vet, not a doctor. Cat was treated horribly, vet gave the cat the wrong medication and made her quite ill. I looked him up. He already had a criminal conviction! I complained. Some lawyer working for him called me and threatened me.

This is how evil people behave. You have to be very careful. They do so much wrong, that they are very familiar with fighting against criticisms of their abusive actions.

One time I was in the ER with severe respiratory problems (eventually diagnosed with severe apnea and severe asthma). They placed me on a gurney next to someone else with respiratory problems. Either one of us could have severely harmed or even killed the other patient. I complained to the nurse. Male nurse, former military. Guy put an unnecessary shunt in my arm, stuck it in painfully and left it in their for 18 hours...you know, as a threat and as punishment. That was definitely a criminal act.
And while I was there, a phone call came in to the nurses station. Nurse listened very quietly. Then hung up and said out loud, "I guess we are getting sued again."

This is all due to finance and politics. Government let business take over health care. Now they make the rules, not medical professionals. And when they cut costs to increase their profit ratio, medical care suffers.

From my point of view, all these HMO people belong in prison. They are literally prescribing medical solutions without a medical license. By definition, the entirety of what they do is outside the law.

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Replies to "to rsfcowgirl Very very sorry to hear about your experiences. I have had many horror shows..."

Hi. You raise many issues. I agree that medicine has become politicized and do exercise political clout. Yes, doctors are an elite group in many ways. But the reality is that to become a physician, you have to have a high IQ, dedication that places achievement over frivolous pastimes, a clean criminal record and make sacrifices. Not all physicians have the same knowledge/skills, character or personality. Yes mistakes are made. Some mistakes are accidental and some are with full knowledge. But OVERALL ----the medical profession is a humanitarian type of effort. The primary reason for it is to help people medically. We in the USA have enjoyed a quality of life like no other country, in great part, because of public health and individual healthcare. Agreed however, that disparity had existed.
I'm personally grieved by the loss of integrity and high standards in America across the board in our country. But there is a crisis in it healthcare system now, and it's not the fault of the medical professionals. Yes, they're human. But you have no idea of how the recent years have impacted them overall. Some of the highest trained + best licensed professionals are leaving the medical field because they can't practice to their personal standards under current circumstances. The medical system is going to decline further for a variety of reasons.
I'm an old gal. I've seen the changes in our country over recent decades. I was part of the medical profession in my career. I see much collapse in some areas---- with great improvement in other areas, including pharmacology and technology.
I feel the experience of seeking and receiving medical care is more of a battle than any other activity. And you don't know what the outcome will be until it's over as far as inter-personal dynamics and quality of care go.
My experience with this recent doctor who is a grandiose narcissist and who will punish any patient to the fullest extent of his reach has resulted in my withdraw from care, basically. I see one PCP who is in a small husband-wife practice. She's excellent. She's treating me for PASC and giving me my life back. But I decline all other services. I prefer to not have care than to suffer the stress, struggle and potential abuse that is now associated with it. The top rung of the medical field still leads the world in resolving the most complex conditions and provides the research that moves the survival of mankind forward. But they can't accommodate everyone.
As a last comment: I have seen and experienced the most abusive, substandard and outrageous nursing/tech conduct from men who came out of the military and into the private sector when nursing wages greatly increased, only because of the pay scale and open door. I hear you on that. I have observed it to my shock. Otherwise, I might not believe it. Their conduct is alien to any other behavior I've seen in my career.
I had satisfaction from my insurance company. I reported the doctor to UHC and Medicare for falsifying my medical billing to make me appear sicker on paper for increased reimbursements. He outright fabricated+ committed fraud. They withdrew payment for those claims. I also posted on health line + other Internet sites for rating doctors exactly what problems I experienced. I am going to submit a complaint to the State licensing board. I have added my corrections+ experience to my electronic medical records and I instructed this Dr that I prohibit him or his office from making his records available to any other medical entity other than insurance.
I am continuing remedies. It's not just for me. There needs to be accountability for the safety of others. This Dr has skills to help people. He just needs to have oversight and accountability to address the problems he also has.
I hope you find your way to resolution. It's a war out there, unfortunately. We're not in Kansas anymore, Toto.