I originally went to Sutter in Sacramento, second opinion Stanford, third opinion Mayo Rochester Minnesota. I decided on Stanford. I had to make a decision based on the information provided and decided on Stanford. They had apartments across from the hospital based on our income we were charged $100 a night. I had Medicare and PPO. I hope that was some use?

J, you are most welcome. The insurance maze is challenging to navigate; it can be exhausting all by itself! I also want to mention that most therapists are licensed to practice by their states, not by the US government. If you are searching for someone in your local area, it can be difficult to find someone who has expertise in what you are going through AND who has openings. If you think you could become comfortable talking with a therapist by phone or using telehealth (video on a computer, phone, ipad/tablet or similar device), then your options grow. Since COVID, many of us have been granted privileges to work with clients through these telehealth channels. Some people find this not comfortable or not worth considering, and I understand that completely. For them, being face-to-face with someone, in the same room, feels safer and more connected. For some of my clients, though, this has been a godsend, as they can work with anyone in our state, increasing their chances of finding someone who is available and knows about what they are facing. For some, it has been even more comfortable not having to take time to commute to an office and find parking, etc. And, for some, talking by phone or video actually feels more comfortable.

Again, j, I hope you can find what you need and so deserve and that it is accessible for you. I'm glad you've had a second GYN ONC opinion and know that that other provider will welcome you in future. I still pray that you receive medical care that brings you good health.

Gynosaur