Love really is immortality.
It is doable and a realistic goal, the how-to is the issue. I have noticed that some men get offended me having already met the love of my life. I suppose they envision themselves being that for someone.
I tried Tinder and it scarred me. In retrospect, that was not the right thing to try. Which dating service did you use? I am glad that worked out well. There really are some great people out there.