I also must add that staying in love is so very simple if you are, indeed, "in love"...big difference between loveing someone and being "in love" with someone. When you are in love the relationship is blissful, overwhelming, understanding, caring, devoting yourself to the other's happiness and well being and be willing to put yourself in their place in the face of dire illness and death. I know this first hand and would have traded places if I could have for the love of my life with whom I was "in love" and still am even though he is the angel on my shoulder every moment of every day and night.