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If a doctor tells you a spot he found has metastasized?

Cancer | Last Active: Sep 7, 2023 | Replies (14)

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@bethbe71

That definitely wouldn’t be me, I’d stress him out more probably (not meaning to of course) But our older brother Billy would be good for calming him. I just know he’s not himself lately. He would usually be the life of the party making everyone laugh, but has been quite and staying to himself. I just don’t know if he’s hurting somewhere and not telling us or what. Thanks for your reply

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It doesn't have to be you, it could be anyone, even a non-relative.
I think you also need to spend some time around your grounding person, if you have one or find one. This will be heavy on all of you.
A lifetime ago, when the love of my life was still alive, my life felt lighter. It is amazing what a person's presence can accomplish, even in silence, even electronically. That feeling of being grounded and some level of clarity of thought, I wish that for you and your brother.