You are the best and this is so helpful to me also. Funny how real connection works--isnt it? Another human requirement! I will share anything i can that has eased my soul in the least. I wish i could scan some worksheets for you from my grief classes but I have not set up my printer yet and i am expecting it will not just "come on" easily...My hubby was the IT person as it was also his career. At first he would say i was a technophobe but one day he exclaimed, "Honey, i heard a new term that fits you much better...Technoplegic" !! I was paralyzed for the first year with all the hidden information and financial records on his PC. Just saying that brings back that sick feeling in my stomach. I will help however i can, even if its just to commiserate with you!