@teacher502 I respect you for making such a difficult decision. But, I do feel that I was too abrupt and unkind when I responded to you yesterday and I’m sorry. The discussion brought up so many memories for me when I had to say no to my dad’s doctor. I was my dad’s MDPOA and my mother asked me to talk to the surgeon and make a decision. The surgeon told me that he wanted to amputate both of Dad’s legs because of poor circulation in his feet. I said absolutely not. Dad was 93 and a retired army officer, and he would never accept this surgery. We argued for a bit but I won out.
I wish you and your husband all the best. How lucky he is to have someone like you to care for him! Becky