Hello @joeystarr and welcome to Connect Head and Neck Cancer group. I would think the reference to radiation breaking the jaw is most likely the possibility of osteoradionecrosis, which occurs in a limited number of patients and usually after several years. A lot depends on the location of the beam projection and the type of radiation beam used (proton being the most accurate).
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