Well... since you've read my reply, you probably know where I stand. But look... i can't say I'm a fan of getting J tubes (or G tubes). They are just tools to be used (if needed) to help us get to the end result... being cancer free. And frankly... the installation of them hurts like a son of a gun... for a week or two... since they poke a bunch of holes in your midsection to do the laparoscopic install. But it soon passes, and then you're left feeding yourself.

But you know how he looks... how frail he may be, what his energy level is, how is swallowing is (which can change very quickly due to radiation, tumor growth, etc). So... keep a close eye on things. We don't want him in a downward spiral simply Bensimon he's not getting enough calories and hydration. Speak up if necessary... or tell them you'll start shopping for second opinions.

Be well.