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Non-Helpful phrases said to caregivers

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Aug 12, 2023 | Replies (10)

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@jan83404

This subject hit home with me because as others have said, I am not a saint! What I have found is that I just want to tell a close friend or family member the reality of it all. But no one wants to listen. When I do have the opportunity to have an hour to myself, I actually panic! What should I do? Shower? Actually, get some chores done? Nap? There are so many things to choose from. I do one thing and that reminds me that there are so many other things I should have done!

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Exactly. Having someone listen and synthesize without immediately trying to give advice on what we SHOULD be doing on how to fix the situation can often be very comforting. I’m sorry your family and friends don’t want to hear what you need to share. 😕 But many of us totally understand what you’re going through and are glad to listen even if it’s just a written complaint. Sending a smile your way.