I think people fear cancer because of the harshness of the treatments, which can also be disfiguring. For example, heart disease doesn't require chemotherapy and radiation but usually surgical procedures, medication, and lifestyle. Also, some fear may be historical, when even recently many cancers were an instant death sentence. So I find the fear understandable. However, you make a good point. I have been very relieved to be a year out from diagnosis to yes--finish projects, help out my daughter's family & nieces and nephews, get myself together in many ways, and enjoy life. I almost died when I was 21, so for 50 years I've truly valued each day, even each hour. And never taken anything for granted. But I do find this has intensified in a positive way. Thanks for the reminder.

My sister died of cancer in 2018. I was one of 2 main care givers, & experienced her painful treatments, & the 3-1/2 year demise of so many of her abilities. I also spent a lot more time with her & her family, than we ever would have (I quit my job, & live in a different state from her). My fear comes not from dying, I am at peace with that, but the loss of self that slowly happens, & the pain & suffering of those I love, as they care for me, & witness (& have to grieve) the end of my life.

I don’t fear dying. I fear being maimed along the way.