Oh my goodness, Holly, you’ve certainly got a lot on your plate right now. It’s difficult to process all of that on a daily basis, isn’t it? I know how overwhelming it seem when everything feels beyond your control…only so much you can accomplish in a day. I love your idea of checking off each box and moving on to the next in order to manage your day and pace yourself.

That reminded me of a discussion in our forum started a few years ago by a fellow mentor, @becsbuddy about the Spoon Theory, a means for getting through each day when you have limited energy. I’ve posted the link below where you’ll meet @becsbuddy @hopeful33250 @nana75165 and many other members who practice the spoon theory. ☺️
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/how-do-you-plan-your-day-and-conserve-energy-are-you-a-spoonie/
I think that’s a cool way to mete out time and energy in a day. But when I think of spoons, I think of food! 😂 So I have my own method for coping that keeps me away from the fridge!

Sounds like you’re getting good advice from your orthopedic surgeon and I hope you’ll be able to get your shoulder surgery taken care of soon. That seems like it’s the most pressing item to get out of the way! Getting a new shoulder can make a huge difference in your comfort level. A friend had a shoulder replacement not long ago and it was a game changer for her! She had range of movement again and little pain. The recovery period with PT wasn’t always pleasant but she said it was nothing compared to the pain she had before surgery. So she’s a happy camper.

I wish all the best for you and don’t hesitate to run ideas past me when you find out what your dentist came up with for a treatment plan.

We’re just across the big lake from each other! ☺️ Finally a gorgeous day in Wisconsin and not so oppressively hot & sticky! I tend to lose my cherub-like demeanor in that weather. Haha. Stay cool and keep me updated. Hugs! 💕