I could have almost written this myself. We are so on the same page. You get sick of people telling you "He is with you.", or "He is watching over you." This is pap made up because human beings are frail and need this because most of us cannot stand on our own two feet. And I admit that there are times that some of this helps you to feel better. But the bottom line is as you say. We have to live our life to the best of our ability. I am going through a horrible time in what is left of my life right now and your downright words made me feel so much better. Thank you.