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How fortunate to be "seen" by others in a supportive, positive way! And recognized for your strenths as benefits, instead of obstacles!
Unfortunately, my life experience, at least as I remember it, and focus on it, is a series of attempts, goals identified, sought, pursued, and disappointment - frequently undermined by others (always females) - whom I've been told in therapy were most likely jealous of my capabilities. Maybe so, but that sure doesn't help me or my efforts at success!
I'm still intrigued by the many ways autism can manifest in adults, and have not yet come to any way to determine if it describes me and/or my sister, so that at least I might be able to make some sense and peace with my life experiences, at least insofar as autism may impact them.
I hope I'm not too late in coming to this discussion now, in 2023. I'm going to continue to read through the posts here up to the present, and also check out "Everyday Asperger's" (if I haven't already purchased it and - like most of my self-help books - haven't actually read it yet!! ... but hope springs eternal!)
Hugs and smiles and enduring patience and understanding to all who travel this path. And, as always, thank you Mayo Clinic Connect and all the folks here for so many life-saving and peace-of-mind, comforting posts, guidance and genuine sharing.
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I apologize for coming to the table so late. COVID, my oldest child passing away, my husband hospitalized four times, and life in general did a number on me. My daughter passed away in November of last year, but I was having major difficulties prior to that. My executive functioning was so off. I still find myself searching for a word, or trying to remember a name. Grief held me bound for so long, I didn't think I would ever be able to return to this place. But here I am. And I am grateful to be here and to read these posts and know there are some truly wonderful survivors out there. Let's talk! Always grateful,Mamacita
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@brandysparks Being on the autism spectrum is like a pendulum swinging. Symptoms and manifestations can change dramatically based on what else may be going on in a specific situation or day! I believe that goes for children, teens, and adults alike, formally diagnosed or not.
It is my own personal opinion that a formal diagnosis can be very subjective. It can be very enlightening to know, scary to contemplate how to proceed, and saddening to realize how things might have been different "if only I had known this before!"
Ginger