Congratulations, step one:complete! (You survived the surgery.) Now, walk every day even with the cath. When it's out, you should have the pathology report detailing what was found in the tissue removed at surgery. That, plus a follow up PSA dictates next treatment steps. In the meantime, Kegel's exercise for incontinence, and starting a penile rehab program for erectile dysfunction. Here's hoping in a year you'll have hit the trifecta: undetectable PSA, minimal to no urine leakage, and signs of life down there. Good luck!