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Supporting a depressed spouse.

Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Aug 1, 2023 | Replies (39)

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@annewoodmayo

Hey there, Brandysparks!

I'm so glad you like the ice cream idea. 🙂

Being "in" on the joke was just the "sprinkles" on top for me; I would have benefited from the outing even if I never realized my husband only did it for my benefit.

But, I can see how someone might get put off by the trick aspect. I was just grateful for the help.

And I agree that It IS much nicer to have a partner in on the fight! I like that my husband kept up the fight with the ice cream idea when I couldn't do a thing for myself.
I think that was why I wasn't annoyed that he "tricked" me. I guess it wasn't a trick, after all. It was help. (Funny, writing this out has helped clarified my feelings and thoughts!)

Hugs back at cha!

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I understand it all around...and I think it's a very loving, supportive thing.
Warm wishes...