After I had my surgery, I had to wear an ileostomy bag for 3 months and then had it reversed. I also did experience some other issues from the radiation regarding my sexual organs but at least I'm alive and am able to have some good years with my loving wife yet. We have been married 52 years this August. My wife stood by me all the time during my procedures and was with me during every doctor visit. You are such a fantastic companion while your husband is going through this. Believe me he does appreciate your standing by him through all of this. I know this from experience.