I think you hit the nail on the head! This is what society has become. Selfishness is all around. I was taught to be positive in a negative situation. Friends are not friends if they cannot take time to send a note, call or just be there. I have a friend who is always caring and loving. I try my best to be there for her as well. My cousins have been a Godsend. I notice so many on mayoconnect have voiced this over and over. No, the Calvery is not coming. Meanwhile we still wake up with the angst and feeling like we lose a little bit of them in many ways. I appreciate all of you. God bless!