Hey, not only am I trying to understand Pudendal Neuralgia but I also want to help this girl I care about through it. She explains that walking makes it hurt like hell at night and sitting down hurts a lot. I guess for starters I’m looking for ways to help her manage her pain and ways maybe you have found helpful.

I am also looking for clothing and shoe ideas for her that are comfortable. She has told me sneakers and such are painful and she likes to wear sandals because they help. Do you have any recommendations for these like websites to order from or something to help her feel better about her clothing as she is upset she can’t wear a lot these days.

Lastly I want to ask, what are things you have found that she could do for fun. She gets sad at her life before this and I want to help her become happy and enjoy life some more again. What are things you have found to be enjoyable and ways she could start to be happy in life despite this? What activities do you think are manageable for her?

I appreciate all your advice and anything helps out so much. Thank you in advance.