@kayda916

There are numerous hearing assisted devices on sites that are geared to people with hearing challenges. Diglo.com has a Clear Sounds CR200 that you supposedly connect to your phone that has volume, a light strobe that lights up the whole room and an optional Jack to connect a bed shaker. I would check Harris Communications and Oaktree products and maybe Adco.
They can all be trialed and returned. I use the flasher on my cell phone what lights up when a call comes through but it only flashes once. Something like the Clear Sounds might work and you can research them.

Perhaps someone here uses a product that they like. I actually was thinking of something along that line for myself and your post tweaked my interest again.
I’ll post back if I find something . I actually could wear my Samsung watch to bed since it’s connected to my cell phone. Both vibrate when a call comes in.
I just don’t like to wear it to bed since it’s on my wrist all day .

Let us know what you find

FL Mary