Thanks for your reply - I have had one surgery (lumpectomy) and margins were not clear. Currently I am opting for a 2nd surgery to hopefully get clear margins. I have not moved to the stage of radiation or pills yet due to the need for a 2nd surgery.
I too am a step by step person and want to take this slow since it is noninvasive and contained.
I am not ready to visit the mastectomy route. I feel my type of cancer and history affords me time to do the 2nd surgery and obtain a 2nd opinion. That is what I plan to do. 2nd surgery scheduled for 7/3.