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Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Jun 26, 2023 | Replies (12)
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I am so sorry you are going through this. of course my mom knows when caregivers come she is getting bathed and changed and food sometimes (normally i feed her) so it isn't so bad but now she is transitioning, she is fighting it but not clearly awake still) If i can make a suggestion, I would care for him the best you can (my dad did this for years and it worked for him) but if you have any help (children/friends) who can come "spend time with your hubby even a few hours a week where you can get time away to shop, get coffee by yourself or with a friend, etc. this will help your mental state.
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Thank you for your thoughts. Yes, I have a caregiver who assists me for 24 hours each week. Unfortunately, my husband won't let her bathe or change his bandages on his bed sores -- he only wants me to do it. While she is with us, I am able to run to the store or the post office; however, we live 50 miles from town so it is always a rushed trip and filled with the chore list. Living rurally is very peaceful, but not the best when there are health challenges. We have no family living near us, but some friends are willing to come to sit with him. I also find that spending little chunks of time working in our yard is healing for my spirit. We have a stunning view of Mt. Hood, fields, and lots of blue sky; I feel a sense of freedom when I can be outside.