Anne, thank you again for some sound advice. My wife knows I have been in contact with her sisters. They know she is very ill. I talked to my wife about it. She has agreed to see the sisters. Just not yet. She has had meds change again, so not in pain all the time. She doesn't want to see her Mom. I'm not pushing that at all ,our oldest was trying to get that going, but he doesn't know things that I know about that.We haven't told him, probably never will. Now I have Dr. Appointment and my sister is here ,so that I can go. I hope it's nothing major on my end. I have to be able to take care of her. It was a little hard to do this morning. I was hoping it was nerves but hasn't stopped for about 48 hours. I think it is probably a hernia or something like that. I'm sorry you're ill. I pray for comfort and care. Thank you, Jeff.