I'm directing this to everyone - When I was first diagnosed, a relative who had recently also been diagnosed, gave me a book of letters, "Dear Friend, Letters of Encouragement Humor and Love for Women With Breast Cancer" put together by Gina L. Mulligan. Would you believe that a year and a half later, I am still only three-quarters of the way through? So very many poignant and selfless letters that help me when I am really down. I pick up this little book and feel so much love and encouragement. Since being diagnosed, I have obtained and given out this little book to friends/relatives recently diagnosed.