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Adding to my previous comment that I'm focusing on short term goals these days. Long term goals are still great so long as the steps you need to take each day are things you enjoy -- like taking a class that you enjoy. I guess when I was thinking of long term goals, I was really thinking that I'm no longer into delayed gratification. I'm not going to sacrifice what I like to do today, this week, this month, this year knowing that it will pay off in 5 years when I may not reach that mark. If I like the small goals needed to achieve a long term goal then that would be great.

I also like that @windyshores suggested maybe taking one class at a time. That's a great idea so classes don't monopolize all your time and you have plenty of time to do the other things you enjoy as well. Like she said, it's a bit different for each of us. Do what feels right for you. 🙂

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Thank you! This makes sense. I benefitted from your thinking. My daughter turned me on to Domestika for classes. Each class is short and inexpensive, but excellent. Right now I'm taking one on keeping a travel journal and am in the middle of one on drawing. I'm also back to using zoom as I did in the pandemic and "attended" a friend's concert 2000 miles away.
Still trying to fit in the idea of a big picture, if there is one. I wish there was some life coaching for cancer patients!