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Neuroendocrine Tumors (NETs) | Last Active: Jun 1, 2023 | Replies (18)Comment receiving replies
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Liked your reply, especially the SOB part made me laugh so thanks for that humor. Yeah doctors don't know the life expectancy in many cases so they shouldn't be making comments about that because they can be so wrong. Take it one day at a time and stay involved in the decision process for treatment. One surgeon was anxious to do small bowel resection and I was not because imaging showed stability so I backed out last minute. Then the next year I agreed to surgery and two days before surgery HE backed out saying not worth the risk/benefit for me. How about that! Talk about confusion and anxieties. So I talked to a smart retired doctor and he said what happened was that surgeon was overridden by someone above who reviews all pre-ops for final approval. Then I got second opinion at Dana Farber in Boston and that surgeon said NOT to do it as well. So here I am 3 years later, no surgery yet and doing OK. Go figure. My lesson is stay involved in decisions. Good luck.
The people on this website are the bravest I know. I applaud you for your perseverance in finding a doctor/hospital that was able to treat you. Dana Farber has the reputation for being #1 in excellence in cancer research. I am seen by an oncologist at a Dana Farber satellite location near my home but I think Mayo Clinic is the tops in patient care and that is why I use Mayo Clinic for this online support group and as a source of information. The message I would like to convey to everyone is that you know your body, you know when something is wrong, don't be intimidated by anyone because they have a medical degree. Eventually you will find someone that will listen to what you are saying and be able to help you. You need to be proactive in your care and try to remain focused on one day at a time. God Bless.