Pippa it was a definite reality check when I was told the same prognosis and yes it took a bit of positive thinking and realized that it was discovered and that someone is doing the best they can to bring you back to normal life. Thank God that technology has advance allot in this field. I start my 7 weeks of radiation and chemotherapy on June 8 , secured my saddle well and ready for the ride of my life.
Stay positive it will get better.
God bless and good luck