I am so sorry for your grief. I have been there and done that. I had a Radical Mastectomy when I was 35 and a simple mastectomy two years later. I have had doctors see my chest and say "we would never do that to a woman today". My reply "you can't fault success, I am 92 years old." I am sure your husband looks at you and thanks God you are still with him. You are the most important person in the World to him. If it is possible to have reconstruction, give it some serious thought. Look at the world and see how beautiful it is, and how lucky you are to be here. I believe there was a book titled "The Power of Positive Thinking". You are so much more, then your breasts. Give that husband a big kiss, imagine how much he needs you now, after all he has experienced when he thought he might lose you. Love him, and all your family who love you so much. God has been good to you. Life is wonderful, enjoy every day, the gift that was given to you. It comes around only once.
Gina5009