Changing Doctors for Followup: Who do I see?
I’m 7 years post double mastectomy bc surgery. 2020-2021 was my 5 year follow up but it was the height of covid so it threw everything off. By the time I got into see my oncologist it did not go well. She came into the door of the exam room totally geared up in double masks and face/head shield helmet and what appeared to be a hazmat suit head to foot. From the doorway she asked why I didn’t do a virtual appointment. She seemed agitated with me. I said I don’t believe you can detect cancer over a screen. She abruptly walked over and examined me. Said: people are dying from covid. I said I understand that but as an oncologist you should know they are also dying of cancer, especially left undetected too long. She didn’t respond. Said I seemed fine and see me if I had a problem. To try to avoid coming in person.
I haven’t been back to her. I attempted to get a new oncologist last year but everywhere I called they called back after reading my files and said they couldn’t see me, they weren’t taking new patients or they said not unless I had a new present condition. How would I know that I do if I can’t be seen? I feel like she put some note in my file. Anyway, I feel I do have a very recent issue. My right breast feels slightly swollen on my armpit side and yet a little loose/hollow rippling underneath. I don’t know how to describe this other than say it also feels “off” even when I touch the area or lift my arm, a little stiff or “thick” feeling compared to the left breast that just feels it’s usual.
My dilemma is, who do I see? Do I call a new oncologist, a general practitioner, OB/GYN, the cosmetic surgeon, the oncologist surgeon...? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you sorry so long.
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@littlebit71 -- yes, I have also noticed when replying to the initial post, there is no reply option, just comment. Just use their screen name in your reply to get their attention.
My regular family physician always ordered my mammograms before I had cancer. I would imagine your family physician could examine you and order the diagnostic mammogram. Also some hospitals have "high risk breast clinics" that read the mammograms as soon as you get one versus waiting and can do ultrasounds etc if needed on the same day.
@allusernamestaken (love your user name) I have read that if triple negative cancers make it to 5 years, they face less risk of recurrence, but for hormonal cancers, the risk continues to rise. My two genomic tests at the 5 year point bore that out as did the graph on my original Oncotype. But if your risk was low, it probably continues to be low, relatively.
I also had a double mastectomy. Since we don't have breasts, we are not having the MRI's my friends with one mastectomy are having. Noone is checking our chest wall anymore, or our lymph nodes.
I don't like to bother folks with stage 4 but have occasionally asked how it was detected (usually bone, not always) and the answer always seems to be that they were having imaging for something else entirely.
It's easy to feel abandoned with our continuing fears. I hope one of your docs can provide reassurance.
Thank you that’s what I was thinking today, that I should probably call the GYN doctor and make an appointment. Having no luck with oncologists. I live in a far rural area so everything is a drive. But I think I’ll ask recommendations and referrals from the OB/GYN doctor.
This was very helpful, thank you. I agree with all you said. I know they say the highest odds are within the 5 year marker then slowly decrease but I do know several people that were outside of those highest percentages. I’m hoping what I’m experiencing is only scar tissue and over use of the arm. But it’s nagging at me to get verification. I’d rather ignore it but I’m a mom, I can’t afford to error on the side of comfort :/ I wish for us all that we never had to experience this or the possibility of its return. I’m more emotional about this than I was the initial cancer. I was very pragmatic at the time. But lack of experience can often be needed boldness and optimism.
Best to you!
Thank you @windyshores I also love your screen name! 🥰 So many variables with cancer. I learn so much every time I ask questions. Thank you for your words.
@frogjumper thank you I had a double mastectomy so no mammograms for me anymore. My pc doc retired 8 months ago and I have yet to replace her but need to. I think I’ll start with an appointment at the OB/GYN.
Hi. I agree with zebra, auntieoakley and windyshores. The best way to really know is to make an appointment with your gyn or pcp and get the referral for a mammogram and/or ultrasound just to be sure. Let us know how you make out. 👍
Maybe extreme but I would go to a major cancer center like MD Anderson. I think you can send them all your records in advance. Dont wait. Only use a breast oncologist. Good luck xox
The highest risk is not in the first 5 years for hormonal cancers. The risk continues to rise after 5 years. For that reason, I don't understand why we are not followed but I believe it is because there is no definite way to determine spread , for those of us with no breasts, until symptomatic or imaging for something else brings it out. We apparently see oncology for the years we are on meds, only. Maybe other practices are different.