Thank you Darlynn,
You are right. Both previous oncologist and my breast surgeon l see for check ups got rather upset when l told them. Breast surgeon said he can't count the cases of people being alive and kicking five years later!! Besides, l have the feeling this she-oncologist who is supposed to be professionally fantastic, might be a little bit too full of herself... lnstead of motivating the patient - while maintaining a realistic approach, of course - she distroys him...