I never even thought of therapy during the years I was suffering. It is only now, when the ultimate in suffering - losing my husband and having a full hip replacement in quick succession - happened, did I consider it. I was fortunate to find such a wonderful woman. She gets me. We align on political affiliations, views on religion, etc., so I felt very comfortable with her. Sadly I have not heard from her lately because something happened to her 95 year old father and she told me she had to leave to go and see to things. I hope he did not die. I am leaving on my cruise the end of the week. If I have not had an email from her when I return, I will contact her to see where things are. If she is not able to continue, I really don't know what I will do. I guess I will have to face that when it happens.