I also looked the directions to send private messages (see below), but even when I click on YOUR user name, it doesn't bring up a profile page with "send private message." In order to get the important contact info needed from Kyle ASAP , I don't mind providing my email or cell number. If need be, I don't mind if you send him my email and contact info.

Directions:
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Click the member's username. This will bring you to the member’s profile page.
Click Send Private Message.
Send PM
Write a subject and your message.
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Click Send Message.
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