Thanks for the support! I didn't take the negative comment too seriously. I realize everyone comes to this place with their own history and individual point of view. At first, I was taken aback by the vitriol, but I decided I had much more serious things to worry about.
Sometimes I feel pretty good. Someone posted about their partner being an emotional sponge. I think of that and it helps me control my own moods. I don't show frustration as easily when I know my husband will most likely pick it right up and get upset.
I'm reading a lot about caregiving for dementia patients, and that's helping, somewhat. I'm practicing gratitude. I'm trying to discern what the reality of my situation is, and to put it in perspective. Sometimes I'm better at this than other times.
I'm sorry to hear about you and others in similar situations. Although, the knowledge that other people can do it makes me stronger, It makes me believe that I can do it, too,