Hi Melc2023,
What a terrible situation you are in! I can recommend a home remedy for constipation that my mom always gave me. I'm 76 and still use it. It's natural but may be a little harsh. It's a teaspoon or more, if needed of baking soda (the kind you cook with - Arm and Hammer) dissolved in a glass of water. Drink the whole glass. You may want to squeeze a little lemon juice in it to make it taste better. It tastes awful, but it works. Stay near the bathroom. It works fairly fast. By the way, this also helps get rid of gas and bloating. I hope this helps you. Constipation can be so awful and it sounds like you've been going through a lot lately!
I'll remember you in my prayers.
PML