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The gastric symptoms you describe mirror my brother's reaction to Xolair - after several years on the injections, he now can predict the onset to be 4-8 hours after injection, lasting about 24 hours. Also, he has more food intolerances on Xolair than off it, but he also breathes better on it, so far him the trade-off works.
My concerns regarding your son are due to his age (my daughter is a high school nurse & both my kids had trying medical and learning issues at your son's age.) Teens, especially boys, hate to be "different" or to appear "weak" to their peers.
Is your son at the point in his maturity that he can and will fully participate in his own care and management?
Can he remain compliant with limitations due to his health and medications, even when away from you?
Will he fully disclose all of his concerns and or side effects directly to his care team?
If you have not already done so, I suggest that you begin to turn over these responsibilities to him. Start with a conversation about why this is important, and express your willingness to stand by and help as he progresses.
It is HARD to do this - there will be missteps along the way. You just deal with them, calmly and without blaming, let your child feel the consequences and learn from them. And it is IMPORTANT - he is only a couple years away from adulthood, and society's expectation that he be able to manage. And potentially be on his own at college or elsewhere.
Good luck to both of you as you walk this path to a healthy adulthood for your son.
Sue