Hi, @contentandwell - prior to when I had the surgery on my bladder and rectal prolapse, the surgeon and his staff, especially, did tell me a number of times this was a "major surgery." I made arrangements for care and transport to preschool and other activities for my kids, who were tiny at the time, for 6 weeks. I had to extend the daycare for my children (I was a stay-at-home mom at the time) two additional weeks part-time cause I just didn't have near the stamina needed to safely and appropriately take care of them yet. Then I had my children back fully after that, but was still in the mode where a great deal of fatigue hit me daily and required a nap, which worked as my kids were also at a napping age.

Though I made preparations for my recovery as instructed by the medical team, I think I was naive and didn't really know what a "major surgery" meant at that time. I also had a UTI after the surgery, which I believe is somewhat common, but then had a bad reaction to the medication I was given for it. I also recall going back on the medication for bladder spasms that I'd been on presurgery, so I must have been having issues in that way, too. So, at least a couple complications arose in my case.

I think that just as we are doing here, it's helpful to get input from as many women as you can as you seek to determine the right decision for you personally on prolapse surgery.