I feel the same. That I have done everything I was supposed to do regarding diet and exercise. I still do that, but I did have to go on Tymlos - which I am currently on with no side effects. None that are apparent anyway.
I have an endocrinologist and a rheumatologist following my osteoporosis. I trust them both, but I also consult with a doctor in Berkeley - Dr. Lani Simpson. She wrote a book called "Bone Health." She has a website and a bunch of Youtube videos. I started sending her my DEXA results a few years ago and she would tell me what she thought about my options. She generally agrees with my doctors here. She is very pro exercise and diet but isn't opposed to the drugs. She also wrote a book about Vitamin D. I feel that she is the best source of information that is current and impartial. Dr. Lani has osteoporosis herself.