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@2me

I love what you wrote: “and so we live and love and enjoy the moments.” My husband was also diagnosed with MCI. The things I’m noticing most are short term memory issues, repetition of questions (within 5 minutes or less) and technical challenges that used to be his forte. I hear “where do we keep …(spatula / pizza cutter etc)???” On a daily basis. Like you, I want others to see him the way he has always been. This group is a wonderful support system. My husband’s sister (6 years older) just passed away from Alzheimer’s and he has watched her decline. That makes it even more difficult for him. You sound like a lovely person doing your very best on a daily basis. I guess that is all we can do.

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Thank you, but some days I don’t feel lovely at all. I pray for patience, not to resent, and to please don’t argue- sometimes it makes no sense and just makes us both sad.

I get the same thing about remembering where things are and now we are in the middle of repainting our house and changing the color of the cabinets.

It has to be so hard for your husband to have seen his sisters decline then fear for himself. And so hard for you. That’s the stay in the moment part. I hope in all of it you both can sneak in some joy.

Thank you for your kind reply. I was so happy to find this group.