@meitsjustme Other members have given you some wonderful book recommendations!! You could also think ahead and explore what’s available in your community. Senior Centers have lectures for the caregiver and day programs for the care-receiver. Many of them also have resource counselors who can point you in the right direction. You may also wish to find a counselor/therapist for yourself. You need to feel free to unburden yourself as time moves on.
I loved reading your posting. Your attitude was so upbeat and you’re thinking ahead.
May I ask how you found Mayo Clinic Connect?