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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: May 22 5:57pm | Replies (299)

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Go placidly amid the noise and the haste and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as you can without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your Truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant, they too have their story! Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexatious to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter: for there will always be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career however humble, it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is. Many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not veign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass. Take kindly the council of years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you and sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle to yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the Stars; you have a right to be here! And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding exactly as it should.
Therefore, be at peace with god, whatever you conceive him to be. And whatever your laborers and aspirations and the noisy confusion of life, keep peace with your soul. With all its shame, drudgery, and broken dreams it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy!!!
-Max Ehrmann 1927

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I sent an email to my therapist to arrange for an appointment. I think a lot of my problems stem from low self esteem. Even though I am told differently, I can still hear my mother's voice telling me how stupid I am. I want to talk to my therapist about how to get her voice out of my head.

Wow, that is beautiful. I'll copy it and keep it handy...thanks

I really had to read this over several times to let it sink in. A lot of wisdom and good advice there. I really appreciate your eschewing of religion. Everyone believes differently (or not) and the pushing of other's belief is not always tolerated well. I have been very down for a while. But I have received so much support from all the people here that I had a much better day yesterday - even with a doctor's appointment. Without being disrespectful I insisted that my doctor explain exactly what is going on with me. I told him reading about diagnoses after the fact just didn't cut it. So he did. In the end he said I was really doing well for my age and maybe better than people younger than me. I know why that is. In my 30's I got into racewalking. And even though I had a full-time job and a family to look after, I took the time to go to a track every day after work and race walk several miles. I did this until I retired at age 67. I still continued to walk until my right hip gave way and I ultimately had to have it replaced. So here I am at 88 with my mind still intact and with the help of a titanium hip so is my body. Things are still hard as I miss my husband so much. I don't yet have a clear picture of how this will end, but I go on - with the help of all of you. Thank you.