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Being a Grandmother
I'm sure I'm not the only person on this discussion board who has grand-kids. What do you share with them about your breast cancer and treatment? Obviously whatever it is should be age appropriate and ok within the family's culture. But do you hide it? Or are you open within the limitations of the relationship?
I'm lucky to have a four year old grand-daughter who lives close by. I'm neither super private nor super open. She asked about my "boo-boo" after my lumpectomy a few days ago--knowing I'd been to the doctor and then quiet for a few days but no more. Thoughts?
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I have two granddaughters 30 and 33 years old. They know I have had extensive surgery for Breast Cancer, and they also know there mother's family has also had breast cancer. I have never been tested for the gene, and since my granddaughter's mother is a Nurse, I am sure she has had a discussion telling them exactly what she wants them to know. I do not bring the subject up, and I am open to any questions they might have.
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2 ReactionsAt 4 I probably would say something like "Grandma had to see the doctor for some medicine" By the time she is old enough to discuss this matter with Hopefully there will be a cure"
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2 ReactionsI have 12 grandkids ages 16 to 4. They all know what is going on. One of the 4-year-olds told me after my lumpectomy “ I prayed for your booby”. Brought laughter and joy to my day.
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2 ReactionsThis is so charming and sweet--children so often offer their best.