@krisjb1 I’m so sorry. My life story is similar. I think part of the problem is that we were born at a time when medical care was not what it is now. (1940’s)
I started out in an incubator for 10 days because I was drowning in my mother’s blood. She was hemorrhaging. Then it was ricketts because my stomach rejected the milk they fed me. On to many colds, tonsils were removed using ether for the anesthetic. I had every single childhood disease that was around. I had an ear drum burst from an infection. At 19 I had the dreaded mononucleosis that lasted 6 weeks.
I could go on, but I am trying to get my mind off my problems. My life now is rather quiet, I go out when I can, have my small family over once in a while.
I have a few new hobbies. I do this while struggling with fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, and peripheral neuropathy.