I agree with Roberdc and he gave good positive advise. Post RP with no new meds should soon be like your prior life. The surgery and the post surgery catheter sound worse than they really are. If you are on meds (ADT usually) it takes a some adjusting to but it is doable. This business of staying alive can be inconvenient but it is a CANCER and staying alive is very much worth it. Good luck. We have all been where you are now.