Go ahead and complain. I don't blame you. I have some of that too . I was in a car accident when I was 3 yrs (fractured skull and neck issues), and I am still seeing pain management.. I feel like you do sometimes, like the sickness and surgery never end. My wife is the one being treated for breast cancer, but we're very close, so I feel her pain too. We keep saying this will be the year we stay out of the hospital, and it hasn't happened yet. This year the doctor messed up her breast rebuild, and then lied to us about it (she's just 4 years younger than you), and I was diagnosed with type 2 Narcolepsy. The symptoms are way worse than I knew.
I'm sure I'll be thinking in Jan 2024 that this will be the year. Believe it or not I'm not losing hope.