Unfortunately most of us are judged that way. I’ve always considered it the invisible disability. When I first joined this forum, I brought that up as our disability that rarely gets attention. No walks, no runs for the cause,not enough research, etc..etc…Yes Chronic pain can suck the life out of you. Is there a honest answer? It all depends on who you ask. Surgeons still continue their surgeries knowing what life holds for that patient following the surgery. Most of us finally learn to just ignore it as it becomes a norm. Relationships are affected, friendships disappear. We become a shell of what we used to be. Can you tell I worked in the yard all day yesterday? Yes my body is screaming this morning but I know I still have 20 pieces of sod to lay as my neighbors 3 large dogs dug under my fence knowing my grass was greener lol. My 80# Golden Retriever was there to cheer them on! But I try and look at the bright side. I notice the smaller things which are beautiful and take my time to enjoy those rare moments. I wouldn’t have noticed them before I was injured. I put on my fake smile and greet strangers who will never know how bad I’m really feeling. But what can I do about it? Not a thing but put one foot in front of the other and keep going. Last month my wife and I went to the funeral home and had all our final wishes taken care of. I actually felt comfort as I know one day this pain will finally end. Until then, it’s one foot in front of the other. I’ve lost all hope in our medical system and put 100% of my faith in God. Wishing everyone here a pain free day and a great weekend……David