I understand exactly what you're saying. I did not have a life for 3 years. I could not sleep on my side and sometimes the weight of the covers on my stomach would cause such excruciating pain. Was common to cry getting dressed the pain was so intense. I feel for you.

I had no issues whatsoever with bowel or bladder control or sensation. There was a small concern that a part of my abdominal muscle might not work but that wasn't the case. It will not effect the use of your leg.

I'm glad you got in touch with them. I flew down from Alberta, Canada and stayed at a hotel in Phoenex. There's one right by the hospital. They have a discount for patients of St. Joseph's. Totally worth the effort!

Ben