@dunbun13 Sorry, I’m late, but here is a link to Sjogrens Advocate. It is a newsletter for patients, family members and caregivers of those with Sjogren’s Syndrome. I took a look at it and it had lots of useful info.
https://www.sjogrensadvocate.com/
I understand that you’re seeing a rheumatologist next month. I certainly hope she can help you! Will you let us know what she says about the itching, achy legs and hot flashes?